https://solopoly.net/2013/06/03/the-poly-closet-its-not-not-just-about-you/2020-06-03T14:06:59+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2020/02/02/on-bringing-my-best-self-to-my-intimate-relationships/2020-02-02T22:39:13+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2020/01/31/resuming-this-blog/2020-04-19T06:38:32+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/11/29/riding-the-relationship-escalator-or-not/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/escalator-kiss-medium.jpgEscalator kiss mediumhttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/escalator-kiss.jpgEscalator Kisshttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/snoopy_writing.jpgsnoopy_writingI'm writing a book about non-standard approaches to relationships. <p>Want to help? <b><a href="https://solopoly.net/survey">Take this survey</a></b> to share your views and experiences of relationships that aren't on society's standard <a href="https://solopoly.net/2012/11/29/riding-the-relationship-escalator-or-not/">relationship escalator</a>.https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/couple-escalator.jpgcouple-escalatorRiding the relationship escalator.2018-09-27T10:23:39+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2017/02/21/solo-polyamory-on-polyamory-weekly-podcast/2017-02-21T23:00:36+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2017/02/21/february-only-get-my-book-chapter-on-solohood-free/2017-02-21T22:58:43+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/survey/2017-02-15T14:47:03+00:00weekly0.6https://solopoly.net/about-me/2018-04-30T22:28:25+00:00weekly0.6https://solopoly.net/2017/02/11/book-now-available-stepping-off-the-relationship-escalator/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/cover-book-1-medium-border.jpgcover-book-1-medium-borderhttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/cover-book-1-medium.jpgcover book 1 LARGE2017-02-12T16:41:24+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/02/05/couple-privilege-having-it-doesnt-necessarily-make-you-an-asshole-but-it-can/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/take-away-privileges.pngtake away privilegeshttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/executive-privilege.pngexecutive privilegehttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/green-privilege.pnggreen privilegehttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/knapsack.pngknapsack2016-01-13T00:25:39+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/popular-posts/2015-10-14T17:20:38+00:00weekly0.6https://solopoly.net/2014/12/05/what-is-solo-polyamory-my-take/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/married-and-dating.jpgmarried and datingSeen this reality TV show? No, that's not solo polyamory. (It's also not reality.)2020-07-29T13:07:18+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2015/09/03/reflecting-and-refocusing-after-three-years-of-this-blog/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/so-long-and-thanks-for-all-the-fish-46.pngso-long-and-thanks-for-all-the-fish-46https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/keep-calm-i-m-just-moving-on.pngkeep-calm-i-m-just-moving-on...But you can find me here, at my new project.2015-09-19T04:17:25+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/11/27/non-primary-partners-tell-how-to-treat-us-well/2022-10-18T10:50:22+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2015/08/03/my-book-off-the-escalator-coming-late-2015-how-you-can-help/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/path.jpgpathI've gotten pretty far along the path to publishing my first book.2015-08-05T14:25:32+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2015/06/17/five-lessons-from-two-breakups-in-one-month/2017-05-24T16:22:43+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2015/07/28/going-we-we/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/facepalm-e1438114765930.jpgfacepalm2015-07-31T05:33:23+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/07/are-you-single-poly-care-to-tell-your-story/2015-07-27T16:56:36+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/10/16/solo-polyamory-at-poly-living-2013-philadelphia/2015-07-27T16:56:13+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/11/06/how-to-treat-non-primary-partners-well-seeking-input-from-non-primaries/2015-07-27T16:55:48+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/11/23/treating-a-non-primary-partner-well-2-tips-from-shg/2015-07-27T16:55:16+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/12/03/couple-privilege-your-thoughts/2015-07-27T16:54:07+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/12/17/whats-wonderful-about-being-solo-polyamorous-and-single-part-1/2015-07-27T16:50:46+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/12/17/whats-wonderful-about-being-polyamorous-solo-and-single-part-2/2015-07-27T16:50:13+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/10/rules-for-myself-what-makes-solo-polyamory-work-for-me/2015-07-27T16:49:43+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/15/updates-to-tips-for-treating-non-primary-partners-well/2015-07-27T16:48:58+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/26/survey-for-my-book-filling-in-some-gaps/2015-07-27T16:48:02+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2015/03/22/values-and-ethics-in-polyamory-the-xyz-approach-to-making-tough-relationship-choices/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/tough-choice.jpgTough choiceNot every choice requires close attention to personal ethics. But some do.2016-04-25T11:14:05+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2015/02/12/the-girlfriend-closet-making-space-for-partners-in-a-solo-poly-home-guest-post/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/girlfriend-closet.jpgGirlfriend closetThe girlfriend closet, a week after I created it.  One of my partners has already left a few more items at my house, accidentally. I've put them in her basket, so she can decide what to do with them the next time she visits. The heating pad is for "those days.")2015-03-09T16:01:30+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/about-this-blog/2024-05-08T05:06:18+00:00weekly0.6https://solopoly.net/2014/11/21/my-bottom-line-what-i-require-and-expect-in-my-solo-poly-relationships/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/limbo.jpglimboNOTE: My intimate partners should not handle relationships like this.2019-11-22T10:27:58+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/solopoly-facebook-group/2016-03-10T22:34:13+00:00weekly0.6https://solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/you-keep-using-that-word1.jpgyou-keep-using-that-word12015-06-21T23:58:04+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/10/28/invitation-not-obligation-bite-sized-autonomy-in-action/2016-10-08T17:57:09+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/10/04/relationship-skills-a-checklist/2018-06-24T18:53:59+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/07/16/facebook-group-for-solo-poly-and-singleish-people/2014-10-01T15:14:18+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/09/30/why-im-no-longer-on-the-original-facebook-solo-poly-discussion-group/2014-12-02T03:30:29+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/09/10/polyamory-weekly-on-partners-metamours-and-owning-your-shit/2014-09-10T15:29:15+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/09/09/entering-an-existing-relationship-whats-the-problem/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/square_peg_round_hole.jpgsquare_peg_round_hole2014-10-07T11:21:59+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/07/12/invisible-fences-fuzzy-landmines/2014-09-20T20:47:11+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/09/04/goals-for-intimate-relationships-focus-on-what-really-makes-love-work-for-you/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/carrot-with-stick.jpgcarrot-with-stick2014-09-08T18:33:43+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/08/30/learning-to-trust-in-love/2014-09-04T16:36:42+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/07/08/why-fluid-bonded-sex-is-um-sticky/2019-03-30T21:15:32+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/08/16/midlife-solo-poly-reflections/2014-12-22T20:57:25+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/08/11/more-than-two-book-review-much-needed-focus-on-the-ethics-of-polyamory/2014-10-02T14:09:56+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/07/10/loving-poly-newbies-risk-reward-and-powerful-exceptions/2014-08-03T08:35:46+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/07/03/plan-a-balancing-commitment-and-flexibility-in-solo-polyamory/2014-10-29T07:29:01+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/06/23/family-of-choice-and-solo-polyamory-it-rocks/2014-07-01T13:15:38+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/06/11/back-to-poly-basics-forward-to-possibilities/2014-07-25T16:01:39+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/06/10/balancing-autonomy-and-connection-in-solo-polyamory/2015-03-04T22:14:48+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/06/08/does-your-relationship-roadmap-match-your-destination-guest-post/2014-06-09T07:34:39+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2014/05/30/solo-polyamory-is-harder-why-do-it/2014-08-02T16:28:53+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/12/11/breakups-and-transitions-suck-but-theyre-really-helpful/2014-02-11T20:24:43+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/10/31/autonomy-is-important-but-its-not-all-there-is-to-solo-polyamory/2013-11-02T01:46:51+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/10/26/kimchi-cuddles-webcomic-on-solo-polyamory/2013-10-31T16:55:24+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/10/11/how-to-be-an-everyday-poly-and-solo-poly-ally/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/allies.jpegallies2013-10-18T21:28:52+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/26/solo-v-single-on-my-terms/2014-11-05T00:55:48+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/10/15/psychology-today-pretty-good-post-on-solo-polyamory/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/elisabeth-sheff.jpgElisabeth-SheffDr. Elisabeth Sheff, polyamory researcher.2013-10-15T20:00:33+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/10/10/the-pirates-at-the-top-of-the-escalator/2017-11-16T16:03:41+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/10/06/slippery-language-and-couple-centric-polyamory/2014-02-11T02:35:19+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/09/23/concern-trolling-and-solo-polyamory-no-really-this-is-good-for-me/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/feminist-concern-troll1.jpgfeminist-concern-troll1Concern trolling comes in many guises...2013-10-04T01:16:06+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/09/10/guest-post-sometimes-solo-polyamory-is-selfish-and-thats-okay/2013-09-29T17:19:51+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/09/03/whats-the-point-of-being-primary/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/kimchi-cuddles.jpgkimchi cuddles2013-10-04T02:59:46+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/09/02/5-ways-to-get-enough-touch-without-all-the-pressure/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/kitten-pile.jpgkitten-pileCuddling: It's good for people, too!2018-04-16T19:58:04+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/27/poly-interview-ethical-non-monogamy-from-a-male-artist-and-educator-in-chicago/2013-08-28T00:18:55+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/24/the-trouble-with-solo-polyamory-in-a-word-or-two-guest-post-by-lo-redkoan/2013-08-24T19:16:58+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/21/flat-out-flirt-fail/2013-08-21T23:23:24+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/13/guest-post-this-is-why-i-work-so-hard-on-this-blog/2013-08-18T12:02:19+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/11/the-good-that-can-come-from-bad-breakups-stories/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/win.gifwin2014-09-22T10:21:46+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/07/31/how-i-learned-to-stop-worrying-and-love-dating-and-fwb/2013-08-14T17:30:03+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/05/clay-nikiforuks-advice-on-mainstream-singles-dating-poly-folk/2013-08-09T03:33:13+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/01/when-fluid-bonded-sex-carries-emotional-significance-guest-post-by-master-sonso/2013-08-05T20:29:58+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/08/01/outing-feminism-reblog/2013-08-01T18:30:12+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/03/06/back-in-the-blogging-saddle-insights-from-the-last-couple-of-months/2013-08-01T15:34:19+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/03/29/the-grownup-test-clear-frank-communication-and-negotiation/2016-11-26T22:31:34+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/07/17/if-you-do-have-relationship-rules-that-affect-other-people/2013-07-22T15:25:53+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/07/15/what-are-your-core-relationship-values/2013-07-21T10:14:45+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/07/11/polyamory-and-a-sports-metaphor/2013-07-21T09:54:51+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/15/why-fluid-bonded-sex-is-um-sticky-2/2013-07-09T07:52:14+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/06/14/dan-savage-on-why-you-dont-hear-about-successful-open-relationships/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/american-savage-cover.jpgAmerican Savage coverDan Savage has a brand new book out. American Savage was just published this week. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/American-Savage-Insights-Slights-Politics/dp/0525954104" target="new">Get it on Amazon</a>.2013-06-16T18:36:04+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/06/14/dan-savage-being-out-is-doing-the-heavy-lifting/2013-06-25T19:02:10+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/05/23/why-vulnerability-doesnt-really-suck-from-a-confessed-sore-loser/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/all-the-feels.jpgALL THE FEELShttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/michonne-in-the-walking-dead-comic-book.jpgMichonne Walking DeadSometimes being solo poly can feel a little bit like Michonne in the Walking Deadhttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/sore-loser.jpgsore loserHow sore losers react, including to themselves.https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/belly-scritch-postition.jpegbelly scritch postitionVulnerability can look like this. I don't always see it that way.2013-06-05T22:28:11+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/05/08/monogamy-polyamory-whatever-its-about-choice/2013-05-09T22:56:56+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/05/01/civil-unions-are-cool-even-though-they-only-solve-part-of-the-couple-privilege-problem/2013-05-02T04:25:13+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/08/10/who-the-hell-am-i-to-be-writing-about-relationships-2/2013-04-22T20:33:08+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/04/11/due-diligence-for-non-primary-partners-in-a-convenient-card/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/secondaryclarity.jpgSecondary ClarityCreated by Edward Martin, III and Franklin Veaux. 2013-04-13T13:52:06+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/04/09/on-staying-afloat-in-and-out-of-relationships/2013-05-02T20:48:22+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/04/01/im-giving-up-on-solo-polyamory-its-just-too-hard/2024-05-06T17:48:59+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/04/02/fooled-ya-also-what-have-you-gained-by-being-solo-poly/2020-01-12T07:34:21+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/03/27/polyamory-is-hard-guest-post-from-a-solo-poly-man/2014-11-25T16:41:03+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/03/20/under-the-influence-of-lovers-friends-and-myself/2013-03-25T05:31:35+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/12/11/what-polyamory-can-learn-from-kink-lily-lloyd-speaks-up/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/discipline-book-cover.pngDiscipline-Book-CoverDiscipline: Adding Rules & Discipline To Your BDSM Relationship has been accepted by Amazon for publication and will be available within days. It’s a bargain, too — a full length book at a Kindle Single price at $2.99.2014-07-14T05:18:05+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/23/polyamory-weekly-interviews-lily-lloyd-on-what-poly-can-learn-from-kink/2013-01-23T23:57:43+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/17/if-you-dont-live-with-a-partner-or-spouse-preliminary-survey-data/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/want-to-live-with-a-partner.jpgwant-to-live-with-a-partnerSurely, off-escalator people who don't live with a lover or partner must really yearn for that, right? Not necessarily! Only 10% say that's a high priority. Far more (about one third) prefer living apart from their partners.2013-01-26T17:39:15+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/13/survey-for-our-book-how-are-your-relationships-off-the-escalator/2013-03-07T17:49:45+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/08/clueing-in-poly-newbies-about-solo-poly-people/2013-01-12T17:13:23+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2013/01/02/solo-poly-experience-of-couple-privilege-love-and-losts-story/2013-01-09T13:37:12+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/12/24/the-gift-of-owning-up-after-a-breakup-guest-post/2014-09-12T10:19:53+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/10/11/coming-out-how-out-are-you-as-poly-really-and-why/2013-04-11T18:44:10+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/12/11/my-polyamory-weekly-interview-on-treating-non-primary-partners-well/2012-12-11T23:23:30+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/11/30/why-i-say-non-primary-not-secondary/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/non-primary-relationships.jpgNon-primary relationshipsYes, there are lots of secondary relationships in polyamory. But they are also all non-primary ones. I'm siding with the more inclusive set.https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/jupiter-earth-spot_comparison.jpgJupiter-Earth-Spot_comparisonPrimary relationships (here: Earth) are important -- and they get most of the attention in and out of the poly community. But there are vastly more options for how non-primary relationships (Jupiter) can exist, and work..2015-02-19T17:41:36+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/11/14/straight-up-thanks-what-happens-when-people-who-have-relationship-privilege-stand-up-for-those-who-lack-it/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/straight-up-thanks.jpgstraight up thanksStraight Up Thanks -- a new Tumblr blog thanking the many straight people who worked hard to help pass state marriage equality initiatives, and defeat gay marriage bans, this election season.2012-12-07T14:26:48+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/11/04/why-spoiling-some-dates-is-good-for-a-non-primary-relationship/2019-02-22T10:51:42+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/10/26/kbs-story-rocky-intro-to-polyamory-but-worth-the-effort/2012-10-26T19:07:22+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/10/14/why-it-can-be-hard-to-discuss-how-out-you-are-or-want-to-be-early-in-a-polyopen-relationships/2015-12-29T03:18:26+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/29/whats-a-metamour-on-my-terms/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/death_becomes_her_1992_big_poster.jpgDeath_Becomes_Her_1992_big_poster"Death Becomes Her" -- Bad lessons from a 1992 dark comedy about metamour relations...https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/face-or-vase.jpgface or vaseThe "metamour" concept is like the vase in this picture. Don't see the vase? Only see the faces? That's the problem I'm talking about!https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/shocked.jpgshocked"OMG! I might have to SEE her? TALK to her? Be NICE to her?"2019-11-11T14:20:05+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/27/davids-story-first-be-a-strong-individual/2012-12-28T06:09:04+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/23/the-pros-and-cons-of-living-with-your-significant-other-the-oatmeal/2012-09-24T23:37:32+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/20/whats-a-primary-partner-on-my-terms/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/some-animals-are-more-equal.jpgsome-animals-are-more-equalIn "Animal Farm," George Orwell nailed the absurdity of simply denying a hierarchy, rather than making choices and taking steps to counter hierarchy. If you have a relationship hierarchy, embrace it. 2020-01-31T05:05:43+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/10/solopoly-net-featured-in-polyamory-weekly-podcast-and-why-couples-should-care-about-couple-privilege/2012-12-29T03:22:12+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/09/05/poly-couples-what-do-you-really-have-to-offer-new-partners/https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/telepathy.jpgTelepathyTelepathy causes headaches. And breakups.https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/honesty.jpgHonestyhttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/fear-of-change.jpgfear of changehttps://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/madge_soaking_in_it.jpgmadge_soaking_in_it"Couple privilege! You and your hubby are soaking in it, honey!"https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/legos.jpglegosMost polyamory looks like this. Although the edges aren't quite so sharp. Caution: It can present a choking hazard.https://solopoly.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/minx-headshot.jpgminx-headshotCunning Minx, host of Polyamory Weekly.2012-09-20T17:49:33+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/08/20/single-and-polyamorous-why-yes/2013-04-05T19:04:57+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/08/29/talking-about-safer-sex-the-elevator-pitch/2012-08-30T00:02:35+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.net/2012/08/29/trentonian-columnist-jeff-edelstein-cracks-the-poly-closet-door/2012-08-29T14:56:31+00:00monthlyhttps://solopoly.netdaily1.02024-05-08T05:06:18+00:00