Hi, again!

I’ve decided, after a hiatus of a few years, to resume publishing occasional posts to this blog. I posted pretty actively here from 2012-2015. During that time, I believe this blog did a lot to increase awareness of the diversity of styles within polyamory — particularly that it’s much broader than couple+, nesting partnerships, and hierarchy.

Five years later, I’m still happily, adamantly solo poly. This approach to life and love remains one of the best choices I’ve ever made. It’s supported me in having a better life, and better relationships — all kinds of relationships, whether they include sex/romance or not.

Times change, and people change. Reading back over some old posts here (which continue to attract lots of traffic and inbound links), I realize that my understanding of some topics related specifically to solo polyamory has evolved. It’s really worth an update. I’ll be revisiting some old topics.

I’ll also be exploring some new topics, especially on relationships in general and personal resilience. While these may not all be strictly focused on solo polyamory, I’ll be sure to point out how my perspective is informed by my experience as a longtime practitioner of solo egalitarian polyamory. I am, as always, speaking solely for myself.

I’m also continuing to work on my Off the Escalator book series. That project got sidelined for a couple of years because I had to settle some major life stuff, mostly housing, finances and work. Now that most of that is settled, I’m rolling back into gear. More books are forthcoming, so stay tuned.

Thanks for reading, and commenting, and sharing. I wouldn’t bother doing this if it didn’t seem to be helpful to lots of people. I am grateful that I live in a world where these opportunities for connection and communication exist.

Onward!