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  1. My book, Off the Escalator: Coming late 2015 (& how you can help)


    August 3, 2015 by aggiesez

    This year I haven’t been writing so much in this blog. I’ve been busy with a new project — one …
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  2. Values and ethics in polyamory: The XYZ approach to making tough relationship choices


    March 22, 2015 by aggiesez

    People often refer to polyamory as a flavor of ethical nonmonogamy — but in the real world, are your ethics …
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  3. Survey for my book: filling in some gaps


    August 26, 2013 by aggiesez

    Work on my forthcoming book about nontraditional relationships, “Off the escalator: Great relationships that don’t follow society’s rules” is moving forward. …
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  4. The good that can come from bad breakups: stories


    August 11, 2013 by aggiesez

    This week marks one year since I began writing this blog, So much has happened since then — most …
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  5. Fooled ya! Also, what have you gained by being solo poly?


    April 2, 2013 by aggiesez

    If my post yesterday, I’m giving up on solo polyamory, it’s just too hard, left you despairing that I’d fled …
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  6. If you DON’T live with a partner or spouse: Preliminary survey data


    January 17, 2013 by aggiesez

    In just a few days I’ve already gathered over 100 responses to my new survey about nonstandard relationships. I designed …
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  7. Updates to tips for treating non-primary partners well


    January 15, 2013 by aggiesez

    The most popular post on this blog — by far — was my crowdsourced list of tips: Non-primary partners tell …
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  8. Survey for our book: How are your relationships off the escalator?


    January 13, 2013 by aggiesez

    Love was never one-size-fits-all. Generally we don’t hear much that’s positive (or much at all) about significant intimate relationships which …
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  9. Couple privilege: Your thoughts?


    December 3, 2012 by aggiesez

    No matter how egalitarian you are, privilege exists. We’re all soaking in it — even in the polyamorous/open relationship community. …
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  10. Non-primary partners tell: How to treat us well


    November 27, 2012 by aggiesez

    SPECIAL NOTE: This blog post touches on one of many themes I’ll be covering in my forthcoming crowdsourced book on …
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