Tag Archives: privilege
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Concern trolling and solo polyamory: No, really, this IS good for me!
19September 23, 2013 by aggiesez
“Come on, are you really saying that you wouldn’t want a primary partner if the right person came along? That …
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Civil unions are cool, even though they only solve part of the couple privilege problem
1May 1, 2013 by aggiesez
Here in Colorado last night I accompanied two friends to the local County Clerk’s office at midnight to celebrate them …
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Couple privilege: Having it doesn’t necessarily make you an asshole (but it might)
21February 5, 2013 by aggiesez
It’s surprisingly hard to talk about any kind of privilege — and that’s no accident. Privilege lives in the background. …
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Couple privilege: Your thoughts?
40December 3, 2012 by aggiesez
No matter how egalitarian you are, privilege exists. We’re all soaking in it — even in the polyamorous/open relationship community. …
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Riding the relationship escalator (or not)
165November 29, 2012 by aggiesez
UPDATE FEBRUARY 2017: I’ve just published a new book based on this unexpectedly popular post. Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: …
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Coming out: How out are you as poly, really? And why?
10October 11, 2012 by aggiesez
Today is National Coming Out Day, and it’s not just a LGBTQ thing. So: If you’re polyamorous, are you out? …
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Poly couples: What do you really have to offer new partners?
Leave a commentSeptember 5, 2012 by aggiesez
In any relationship, from intimate partners to business partners, everyone always wants to know: What’s in it for me? A …
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