Tag Archives: privilege

  1. Concern trolling and solo polyamory: No, really, this IS good for me!


    September 23, 2013 by aggiesez

    “Come on, are you really saying that you wouldn’t want a primary partner if the right person came along? That …
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  2. Civil unions are cool, even though they only solve part of the couple privilege problem


    May 1, 2013 by aggiesez

    Here in Colorado last night I accompanied two friends to the local County Clerk’s office at midnight to celebrate them …
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  3. Couple privilege: Having it doesn’t necessarily make you an asshole (but it might)


    February 5, 2013 by aggiesez

    It’s surprisingly hard to talk about any kind of privilege — and that’s no accident. Privilege lives in the background. …
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  4. Couple privilege: Your thoughts?


    December 3, 2012 by aggiesez

    No matter how egalitarian you are, privilege exists. We’re all soaking in it — even in the polyamorous/open relationship community. …
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  5. Riding the relationship escalator (or not)


    November 29, 2012 by aggiesez

    UPDATE FEBRUARY 2017: I’ve just published a new book based on this unexpectedly popular post. Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: …
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  6. Coming out: How out are you as poly, really? And why?


    October 11, 2012 by aggiesez

    Today is National Coming Out Day, and it’s not just a LGBTQ thing. So: If you’re polyamorous, are you out? …
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  7. Poly couples: What do you really have to offer new partners?

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    September 5, 2012 by aggiesez

    In any relationship, from intimate partners to business partners, everyone always wants to know: What’s in it for me? A …
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