Tag Archives: dating

  1. Five lessons from two breakups in one month


    June 17, 2015 by aggiesez

    This month I’ve closed chapters on two intimate relationships: one I value very much, but ended up making me more …
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  2. Flat Out Flirt Fail

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    August 21, 2013 by aggiesez

    Originally posted on Polysingleish:
    Flat out flirt fail. Flat out flirt fail. Say it ten times really fast! Go on!…

  3. Clay Nikiforuk’s mostly good advice to mainstream singles dating poly folk


    August 5, 2013 by aggiesez

    Just wanted to highlight a mostly good bit of recent advice given to a single woman who recently commenced some …
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  4. How I learned to stop worrying and love dating and FWB


    July 31, 2013 by aggiesez

    Labels are tricky things when it comes to describing how you connect intimately with other people — often because the …
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  5. What’s wonderful about being polyamorous, solo and single, part 2


    December 17, 2012 by aggiesez

    This cracks me up: When I mention to someone who’s not polyamorous that I am poly, they often say something …
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  6. What’s wonderful about being solo, polyamorous, and single, part 1


    December 17, 2012 by aggiesez

    Taking stock at the end of 2012, I’ve realized there are many things wonderful about being solo, and polyamorous, and …
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  7. Couple privilege: Your thoughts?


    December 3, 2012 by aggiesez

    No matter how egalitarian you are, privilege exists. We’re all soaking in it — even in the polyamorous/open relationship community. …
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  8. Non-primary partners tell: How to treat us well


    November 27, 2012 by aggiesez

    SPECIAL NOTE: This blog post touches on one of many themes I’ll be covering in my forthcoming crowdsourced book on …
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  9. Why it can be hard to discuss how out you are (or want to be) early in poly/open relationships


    October 14, 2012 by aggiesez

    Since I published my National Coming Out Day post, I’ve gotten into an interesting discussion on the excellent forum on …
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  10. Solo v. single: On my terms


    September 26, 2012 by aggiesez

    At this point I’m both “solo” and “single” — but mostly solo. What the hell does that mean?…