Category Archives: Experiences

  1. Reflecting and refocusing, after three years of this blog


    September 3, 2015 by aggiesez

    I started the SoloPoly blog about three years ago, but I haven’t been posting much here lately. I’ve been thinking …
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  2. Why I’m no longer on the original Facebook solo poly discussion group (but I am on the new one)


    September 30, 2014 by aggiesez

    Since its creation in early 2013, I’ve been very active in the original Facebook group for singleish & solo poly …
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  3. Concern trolling and solo polyamory: No, really, this IS good for me!


    September 23, 2013 by aggiesez

    “Come on, are you really saying that you wouldn’t want a primary partner if the right person came along? That …
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  4. Guest post: Sometimes solo polyamory is selfish, and that’s okay


    September 10, 2013 by aggiesez

    Note: This post was written by Thea Nova, and was originally posted to the group Living as a Single …
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  5. 5 ways to get enough touch, without all the pressure


    September 2, 2013 by aggiesez

    People are really touchy. That is, most people desire or require touch and affection on a regular basis — nonsexual …
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  6. The good that can come from bad breakups: stories


    August 11, 2013 by aggiesez

    This week marks one year since I began writing this blog, So much has happened since then — most …
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  7. When fluid-bonded sex carries emotional significance: Guest post by Master SoNSo


    August 1, 2013 by aggiesez

    EDITOR’S NOTE: I’ve written a fair amount about safer sex vs. “fluid bonding” (barrier-free sex) — particularly, the reasoning behind …
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  8. Why fluid-bonded sex is, um, “sticky”


    July 8, 2013 by aggiesez

    Yeah, OK, pun intended. Couldn’t help it. Sexual health — and particularly safer sex skills — are key considerations in …
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  9. Why vulnerability doesn’t really suck (from a confessed sore loser)


    May 23, 2013 by aggiesez

    Personally, I loathe feeling vulnerable, which often happens when I have to do something difficult in a relationship. Like I …
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  10. On staying afloat, in and out of relationships


    April 9, 2013 by aggiesez

    When people discuss whether a given relationship, or type of relationship, “works” or how much it “matters,” typically they start …
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