Category Archives: Experiences

  1. Why fluid-bonded sex is, um, “sticky”


    July 8, 2013 by aggiesez

    Yeah, OK, pun intended. Couldn’t help it. Sexual health — and particularly safer sex skills — are key considerations in …
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  2. Why vulnerability doesn’t really suck (from a confessed sore loser)


    May 23, 2013 by aggiesez

    Personally, I loathe feeling vulnerable, which often happens when I have to do something difficult in a relationship. Like I …
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  3. On staying afloat, in and out of relationships


    April 9, 2013 by aggiesez

    When people discuss whether a given relationship, or type of relationship, “works” or how much it “matters,” typically they start …
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  4. Fooled ya! Also, what have you gained by being solo poly?


    April 2, 2013 by aggiesez

    If my post yesterday, I’m giving up on solo polyamory, it’s just too hard, left you despairing that I’d fled …
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  5. I’m giving up on solo polyamory, it’s just too hard


    April 1, 2013 by aggiesez

    I feel like such a hypocrite admitting this, after all I’ve written over the last several months. But the truth …
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  6. The grownup test: Clear, frank communication and negotiation


    March 29, 2013 by aggiesez

    I flunked telepathy. In relationships, I function extremely well with information — and quite poorly without it. Perhaps the most …
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  7. Polyamory is hard: Guest post from a solo poly man


    March 27, 2013 by aggiesez

    Introduction by Aggie Sez: I’m embarrassed to have procrastinated for a month or so on publishing this excellent guest post …
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