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On Bringing My Best Self to Relationships
Leave a commentFebruary 2, 2020 by aggiesez
Here’s something I’ve learned through long experience practicing solo polyamory, that I really didn’t quite get otherwise: Since I prefer …
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Resuming this blog
2January 31, 2020 by aggiesez
Hi, again! I’ve decided, after a hiatus of a few years, to resume publishing occasional posts to this blog. I …
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February only: Get my book chapter on solohood, FREE!
Leave a commentFebruary 21, 2017 by aggiesez
Chapter 13 of my new book, Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life covers what it’s like to …
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Book now available: Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator
Leave a commentFebruary 11, 2017 by aggiesez
I know, I know, it’s been a long time since I posted to the SoloPoly blog. I needed to focus my …
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Going “We We”
3July 28, 2015 by aggiesez
Last night I was talking to a married poly guy, rather new (1-2 years) to polyamory. I was surprised to …
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Learning to trust in love
1August 30, 2014 by aggiesez
Recently, Franklin Veaux (co-author of the new book More Than Two) wrote something about relationship assumptions that stopped me cold: …
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Solo polyamory reflections: Midlife is good!
10August 16, 2014 by aggiesez
This week I’m turning 48. I’m definitely well into midlife — and it’s not a crisis. In fact, I’ve felt …
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How to (not) trip/blow up poly relationships
18July 12, 2014 by aggiesez
I don’t know about you, but I flunked telepathy. Which is a big reason why the culture of polyamory is, …
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Family of choice and solo polyamory: Why it rocks, in times of need
3June 23, 2014 by aggiesez
I’m heading out for a week to help my family of origin weather a sudden, painful loss. Part of preparing …
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Solo polyamory is harder. Why do it?
1May 30, 2014 by aggiesez
All types of relationships take work — but it’s definitely not a level playing field. Conforming to social norms does …
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