Category Archives: Lessons

  1. Reflecting and refocusing, after three years of this blog

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    September 3, 2015 by aggiesez

    I started the SoloPoly blog about three years ago, but I haven’t been posting much here lately. I’ve been thinking …
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  2. Five lessons from two breakups in one month

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    June 17, 2015 by aggiesez

    This month I’ve closed chapters on two intimate relationships: one I value very much, but ended up making me more …
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  3. The girlfriend closet: Making space for partners in a solo poly home (Guest post)

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    February 12, 2015 by aggiesez

    By Seth Peck Growing up in Illinois, I didn’t get to see my grandmother much. She lived in the middle …
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  4. Invitation not obligation: Bite-sized autonomy in action

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    October 28, 2014 by aggiesez

    I lead a pretty busy life — and so do, generally, my friends, and my partners. I also tend to …
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  5. Relationship skills: a checklist

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    October 4, 2014 by aggiesez

    Mutually satisfying, healthy and fulfilling intimate relationships (and relationship networks) rarely pop out of thin air. They usually work much …
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  6. Why I’m no longer on the original Facebook solo poly discussion group (but I am on the new one)

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    September 30, 2014 by aggiesez

    Since its creation in early 2013, I’ve been very active in the original Facebook group for singleish & solo poly …
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  7. Polyamory Weekly on partners, metamours and owning your shit

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    September 10, 2014 by aggiesez

    Yesterday my friend Cunning Minx devoted a good chunk of time on episode 401 of her excellent podcast, Polyamory Weekly …
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