Category Archives: Context from my life

  1. Reflecting and refocusing, after three years of this blog


    September 3, 2015 by aggiesez

    I started the SoloPoly blog about three years ago, but I haven’t been posting much here lately. I’ve been thinking …
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  2. My book, Off the Escalator: Coming late 2015 (& how you can help)


    August 3, 2015 by aggiesez

    This year I haven’t been writing so much in this blog. I’ve been busy with a new project — one …
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  3. Five lessons from two breakups in one month


    June 17, 2015 by aggiesez

    This month I’ve closed chapters on two intimate relationships: one I value very much, but ended up making me more …
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  4. My bottom line: What I require and expect in my solo poly relationships


    November 21, 2014 by aggiesez

    The best — and sometimes hardest — part about choosing solo polyamory is that I can never coast in my …
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  5. Entering an existing relationship: What’s the problem?


    September 9, 2014 by aggiesez

    It’s quite common for poly folk to talk about “entering an existing relationship.” I used to say that too. I …
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  6. “More Than Two” book review: Much-needed focus on the ethics of polyamory


    August 11, 2014 by aggiesez

    Polyamory is one flavor of ethical nonmonogamy. Therefore, you might assume that most people who practice, or are considering, poly/open …
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  7. Loving poly newbies: risk, reward and powerful exceptions


    July 10, 2014 by aggiesez

    I believe in giving people chances to demonstrate their character by observing how they choose to behave, and how they …
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