Tag Archives: hierarchy

  1. My book, Off the Escalator: Coming late 2015 (& how you can help)

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    August 3, 2015 by aggiesez

    This year I haven’t been writing so much in this blog. I’ve been busy with a new project — one …
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  2. Polyamory does not equal hierarchy (and why it’s a problem to talk as if it does)

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    October 31, 2014 by aggiesez

    It’s still pretty common to hear people habitually use hierarchical terms such as “primary/secondary” when discussing any polyamorous or otherwise …
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  3. Entering an existing relationship: What’s the problem?

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    September 9, 2014 by aggiesez

    It’s quite common for poly folk to talk about “entering an existing relationship.” I used to say that too. I …
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  4. Concern trolling and solo polyamory: No, really, this IS good for me!

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    September 23, 2013 by aggiesez

    “Come on, are you really saying that you wouldn’t want a primary partner if the right person came along? That …
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  5. Why I say “non-primary,” not “secondary”

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    November 30, 2012 by aggiesez

    I’m a writer and editor by profession, so I choose words carefully. In this blog I deliberately refer to “non-primary” …
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