Tag Archives: hierarchy
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My book, Off the Escalator: Coming late 2015 (& how you can help)
1August 3, 2015 by aggiesez
This year I haven’t been writing so much in this blog. I’ve been busy with a new project — one …
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Polyamory does not equal hierarchy (and why it’s a problem to talk as if it does)
14October 31, 2014 by aggiesez
It’s still pretty common to hear people habitually use hierarchical terms such as “primary/secondary” when discussing any polyamorous or otherwise …
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Entering an existing relationship: What’s the problem?
11September 9, 2014 by aggiesez
It’s quite common for poly folk to talk about “entering an existing relationship.” I used to say that too. I …
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Concern trolling and solo polyamory: No, really, this IS good for me!
19September 23, 2013 by aggiesez
“Come on, are you really saying that you wouldn’t want a primary partner if the right person came along? That …
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Why I say “non-primary,” not “secondary”
12November 30, 2012 by aggiesez
I’m a writer and editor by profession, so I choose words carefully. In this blog I deliberately refer to “non-primary” …
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