Tag Archives: relationships
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Reflecting and refocusing, after three years of this blog
4September 3, 2015 by aggiesez
I started the SoloPoly blog about three years ago, but I haven’t been posting much here lately. I’ve been thinking …
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My book, Off the Escalator: Coming late 2015 (& how you can help)
1August 3, 2015 by aggiesez
This year I haven’t been writing so much in this blog. I’ve been busy with a new project — one …
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Five lessons from two breakups in one month
12June 17, 2015 by aggiesez
This month I’ve closed chapters on two intimate relationships: one I value very much, but ended up making me more …
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Values and ethics in polyamory: The XYZ approach to making tough relationship choices
15March 22, 2015 by aggiesez
People often refer to polyamory as a flavor of ethical nonmonogamy — but in the real world, are your ethics …
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The girlfriend closet: Making space for partners in a solo poly home (Guest post)
3February 12, 2015 by aggiesez
By Seth Peck Growing up in Illinois, I didn’t get to see my grandmother much. She lived in the middle …
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What is solo polyamory? My take
68December 5, 2014 by aggiesez
After more than two years of writing a blog about solo polyamory, it’s high time I got around to clarifying …
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My bottom line: What I require and expect in my solo poly relationships
9November 21, 2014 by aggiesez
The best — and sometimes hardest — part about choosing solo polyamory is that I can never coast in my …
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Invitation not obligation: Bite-sized autonomy in action
7October 28, 2014 by aggiesez
I lead a pretty busy life — and so do, generally, my friends, and my partners. I also tend to …
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Relationship skills: a checklist
9October 4, 2014 by aggiesez
Mutually satisfying, healthy and fulfilling intimate relationships (and relationship networks) rarely pop out of thin air. They usually work much …
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Entering an existing relationship: What’s the problem?
11September 9, 2014 by aggiesez
It’s quite common for poly folk to talk about “entering an existing relationship.” I used to say that too. I …
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