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Learning to trust in love
1August 30, 2014 by aggiesez
Recently, Franklin Veaux (co-author of the new book More Than Two) wrote something about relationship assumptions that stopped me cold: …
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Solo polyamory reflections: Midlife is good!
10August 16, 2014 by aggiesez
This week I’m turning 48. I’m definitely well into midlife — and it’s not a crisis. In fact, I’ve felt …
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“More Than Two” book review: Much-needed focus on the ethics of polyamory
6August 11, 2014 by aggiesez
Polyamory is one flavor of ethical nonmonogamy. Therefore, you might assume that most people who practice, or are considering, poly/open …
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How to (not) trip/blow up poly relationships
17July 12, 2014 by aggiesez
I don’t know about you, but I flunked telepathy. Which is a big reason why the culture of polyamory is, …
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Loving poly newbies: risk, reward and powerful exceptions
3July 10, 2014 by aggiesez
I believe in giving people chances to demonstrate their character by observing how they choose to behave, and how they …
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Plan A: Balancing commitment and flexibility in solo polyamory
6July 3, 2014 by aggiesez
When people consider what qualifies an intimate relationship as “serious” or “significant,” one of the most common themes is “commitment.” …
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Family of choice and solo polyamory: Why it rocks, in times of need
3June 23, 2014 by aggiesez
I’m heading out for a week to help my family of origin weather a sudden, painful loss. Part of preparing …
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Back to poly basics, forward to possibilities
5June 11, 2014 by aggiesez
Something cool happened to me, and it’s giving me some new stuff to say here in the SoloPoly blog. In …
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Balancing autonomy and connection in solo polyamory
4June 10, 2014 by aggiesez
Today in the Singleish and Solo Polyamory Facebook group, I commented on a thread exploring the different ways that solo …
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Does your relationship roadmap match your destination? (Guest post)
3June 8, 2014 by aggiesez
Guest post by Mitchell G The nice thing about traditional relationship models (such as the standard two-person exclusive relationship escalator) is …
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