1. Words matter: Why I’m not “a secondary”

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    October 31, 2014 by aggiesez

    It’s still pretty common, when discussing polyamorous or otherwise ethically open relationships, for people to reflexively use hierarchical terms such …
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  2. Invitation not obligation: Bite-sized autonomy in action

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    October 28, 2014 by aggiesez

    I lead a pretty busy life — and so do, generally, my friends, and my partners. I also tend to …
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  3. Relationship skills: a checklist

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    October 4, 2014 by aggiesez

    Mutually satisfying, healthy and fulfilling intimate relationships (and relationship networks) rarely pop out of thin air. They usually work much …
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  4. Why I’m no longer on the original Facebook solo poly discussion group (but I am on the new one)

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    September 30, 2014 by aggiesez

    Since its creation in early 2013, I’ve been very active in the original Facebook group for singleish & solo poly …
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  5. Polyamory Weekly on partners, metamours and owning your shit

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    September 10, 2014 by aggiesez

    Yesterday my friend Cunning Minx devoted a good chunk of time on episode 401 of her excellent podcast, Polyamory Weekly …
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  6. Entering an existing relationship: What’s the problem?

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    September 9, 2014 by aggiesez

    It’s quite common for poly folk to talk about “entering an existing relationship.” I used to say that too. I …
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  7. Goals for intimate relationships: Focus on what really makes love work for you

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    September 4, 2014 by aggiesez

    Whether we admit it or not, we all have relationships for reasons — including our most intimate relationships. We hope …
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