1. Five lessons from two breakups in one month


    June 17, 2015 by aggiesez

    This month I’ve closed chapters on two intimate relationships: one I value very much, but ended up making me more …
    Continue reading

  2. Learning to dance with ambivalence… and not


    May 26, 2015 by aggiesez

    There’s nothing wishy-washy about live flamenco, and that’s why I adore it. Beyond the sheer artistry of guitar, castanets, cajón, …
    Continue reading

  3. Values and ethics in polyamory: The XYZ approach to making tough relationship choices


    March 22, 2015 by aggiesez

    People often refer to polyamory as a flavor of ethical nonmonogamy — but in the real world, are your ethics …
    Continue reading

  4. Breathing and growing through uncertainty and strife


    March 4, 2015 by aggiesez

    Ever have one of those times in your life when your connections with almost all the people and communities you …
    Continue reading

  5. The girlfriend closet: Making space for partners in a solo poly home (Guest post)


    February 12, 2015 by aggiesez

    By Seth Peck Growing up in Illinois, I didn’t get to see my grandmother much. She lived in the middle …
    Continue reading

  6. What is solo polyamory? My take


    December 5, 2014 by aggiesez

    After more than two years of writing a blog about solo polyamory, it’s high time I got around to clarifying …
    Continue reading

  7. My bottom line: What I require and expect in my solo poly relationships


    November 21, 2014 by aggiesez

    The best — and sometimes hardest — part about choosing solo polyamory is that I can never coast in my …
    Continue reading



Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 497 other followers