Category Archives: Lessons
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Due diligence for non-primary partners, in a convenient card!
5April 11, 2013 by aggiesez
Today the Goddess of Java (a.k.a Polyamorous Misanthrope) offered a must-read post, Don’t treat people like things, which was sparked …
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On staying afloat, in and out of relationships
10April 9, 2013 by aggiesez
When people discuss whether a given relationship, or type of relationship, “works” or how much it “matters,” typically they start …
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The grownup test: Clear, frank communication and negotiation
3March 29, 2013 by aggiesez
I flunked telepathy. In relationships, I function extremely well with information — and quite poorly without it. Perhaps the most …
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Polyamory is hard: Guest post from a solo poly man
12March 27, 2013 by aggiesez
Introduction by Aggie Sez: I’m embarrassed to have procrastinated for a month or so on publishing this excellent guest post …
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Polyamory Weekly interviews Lily Lloyd on what poly can learn from kink
2January 23, 2013 by aggiesez
Kinky people have much to teach the world about relationships — all kinds of relationships, including polyamorous and non-kinky ones. …
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Clueing in poly newbies about solo poly people
9January 8, 2013 by aggiesez
I regularly attend the weekly meetups of my local poly community. Here, the first meetup of the month is always …
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A solo poly experience of couple privilege: Love and Lost’s story
18January 2, 2013 by aggiesez
The New Year is an opportunity not just to reflect and look forward, but also to recognize the way things …
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What’s wonderful about being polyamorous, solo and single, part 2
12December 17, 2012 by aggiesez
This cracks me up: When I mention to someone who’s not polyamorous that I am poly, they often say something …
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What’s wonderful about being solo, polyamorous, and single, part 1
6December 17, 2012 by aggiesez
Taking stock at the end of 2012, I’ve realized there are many things wonderful about being solo, and polyamorous, and …
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Non-primary partners tell: How to treat us well
80November 27, 2012 by aggiesez
SPECIAL NOTE: This blog post touches on one of many themes I’ll be covering in my forthcoming crowdsourced book on …
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