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Why vulnerability doesn’t really suck (from a confessed sore loser)
10May 23, 2013 by aggiesez
Personally, I loathe feeling vulnerable, which often happens when I have to do something difficult in a relationship. Like I …
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Monogamy, polyamory, whatever: It’s about choice!
2May 8, 2013 by aggiesez
Knowledge is power — especially, the power to choose. Default settings often annoy me because I prefer knowing what my …
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Civil unions are cool, even though they only solve part of the couple privilege problem
1May 1, 2013 by aggiesez
Here in Colorado last night I accompanied two friends to the local County Clerk’s office at midnight to celebrate them …
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Due diligence for non-primary partners, in a convenient card!
5April 11, 2013 by aggiesez
Today the Goddess of Java (a.k.a Polyamorous Misanthrope) offered a must-read post, Don’t treat people like things, which was sparked …
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On staying afloat, in and out of relationships
10April 9, 2013 by aggiesez
When people discuss whether a given relationship, or type of relationship, “works” or how much it “matters,” typically they start …
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Fooled ya! Also, what have you gained by being solo poly?
14April 2, 2013 by aggiesez
If my post yesterday, I’m giving up on solo polyamory, it’s just too hard, left you despairing that I’d fled …
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I’m giving up on solo polyamory, it’s just too hard
34April 1, 2013 by aggiesez
I feel like such a hypocrite admitting this, after all I’ve written over the last several months. But the truth …
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The grownup test: Clear, frank communication and negotiation
3March 29, 2013 by aggiesez
I flunked telepathy. In relationships, I function extremely well with information — and quite poorly without it. Perhaps the most …
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Polyamory is hard: Guest post from a solo poly man
12March 27, 2013 by aggiesez
Introduction by Aggie Sez: I’m embarrassed to have procrastinated for a month or so on publishing this excellent guest post …
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Under the influence of lovers, friends, and myself
9March 20, 2013 by aggiesez
One reason I treasure relationships — everything from lighter friendships and casual lovers to deep abiding romances and partnerships — …
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