Tag Archives: polyamory
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When fluid-bonded sex carries emotional significance: Guest post by Master SoNSo
2August 1, 2013 by aggiesez
EDITOR’S NOTE: I’ve written a fair amount about safer sex vs. “fluid bonding” (barrier-free sex) — particularly, the reasoning behind …
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Reblogged: On outing yourself and doing the heavy lifting
Leave a commentAugust 1, 2013 by aggiesez
Originally posted on Research to be Done:
So, feminism. I’ve been doing a fair amount of thinking and talking, lately, about whether or… -
How I learned to stop worrying and love dating and FWB
10July 31, 2013 by aggiesez
Labels are tricky things when it comes to describing how you connect intimately with other people — often because the …
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If you DO have relationship rules that affect other people…
6July 17, 2013 by aggiesez
Many people who are just learning about polyamory for the first time hear an awful lot about “rules” — especially …
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Dan Savage: Being out is doing the heavy lifting
8June 14, 2013 by aggiesez
One complaint I often hear during Pride Month is: “What’s so important about being out? Why do gay/bi/trans people have …
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Dan Savage on why you don’t hear about successful open relationships
6June 14, 2013 by aggiesez
It’s Pride Month — and this weekend in particular, many cities are holding large Pride Parades and other celebrations of …
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The poly closet: It’s not just about you
36June 3, 2013 by aggiesez
How out are you about your nonmonogamous relationships and partners? That’s a pretty touchy question for many people who are …
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Why vulnerability doesn’t really suck (from a confessed sore loser)
10May 23, 2013 by aggiesez
Personally, I loathe feeling vulnerable, which often happens when I have to do something difficult in a relationship. Like I …
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Civil unions are cool, even though they only solve part of the couple privilege problem
1May 1, 2013 by aggiesez
Here in Colorado last night I accompanied two friends to the local County Clerk’s office at midnight to celebrate them …
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Fooled ya! Also, what have you gained by being solo poly?
14April 2, 2013 by aggiesez
If my post yesterday, I’m giving up on solo polyamory, it’s just too hard, left you despairing that I’d fled …
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