Category Archives: Observations

  1. What’s the point of being “primary?”

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    September 3, 2013 by aggiesez

    Today a pretty popular webcomic about polyamory, Kimchi Cuddles, addressed the topic of being poly without a primary. A common …
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  2. The trouble with solo polyamory, in a word or two (Guest post by Lo Redkoan)

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    August 24, 2013 by aggiesez

    At my best, I sometimes say, “Well, if I gotta be alone at least I’m a helluva guy.” The problem …
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  3. When fluid-bonded sex carries emotional significance: Guest post by Master SoNSo

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    August 1, 2013 by aggiesez

    EDITOR’S NOTE: I’ve written a fair amount about safer sex vs. “fluid bonding” (barrier-free sex) — particularly, the reasoning behind …
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  4. Reblogged: On outing yourself and doing the heavy lifting

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    August 1, 2013 by aggiesez

    Originally posted on Research to be Done:
    So, feminism. I’ve been doing a fair amount of thinking and talking, lately, about whether or…

  5. Dan Savage: Being out is doing the heavy lifting

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    June 14, 2013 by aggiesez

    One complaint I often hear during Pride Month is: “What’s so important about being out? Why do gay/bi/trans people have …
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  6. Dan Savage on why you don’t hear about successful open relationships

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    June 14, 2013 by aggiesez

    It’s Pride Month — and this weekend in particular, many cities are holding large Pride Parades and other celebrations of …
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  7. Why vulnerability doesn’t really suck (from a confessed sore loser)

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    May 23, 2013 by aggiesez

    Personally, I loathe feeling vulnerable, which often happens when I have to do something difficult in a relationship. Like I …
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