Solo Poly

Back in the blogging saddle: Insights from the last couple of months

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March 6, 2013 by aggiesez

All writers need to recharge. Without intending to, I took a break for about a month from this blog. Not …
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Category: Context from my life, Experiences | Tags: friendship, insight, journaling, relationships, solo

Couple privilege: Having it doesn’t necessarily make you an asshole (but it might)

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February 5, 2013 by aggiesez

It’s surprisingly hard to talk about any kind of privilege — and that’s no accident. Privilege lives in the background. …
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Category: Explanations and definitions | Tags: couple privilege, polyamory, privilege, problems, relationships

Polyamory Weekly interviews Lily Lloyd on what poly can learn from kink

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January 23, 2013 by aggiesez

Kinky people have much to teach the world about relationships — all kinds of relationships, including polyamorous and non-kinky ones. …
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Category: Interviews, Lessons | Tags: communication, kink, podcasts, polyamory, relationships, sex

If you DON’T live with a partner or spouse: Preliminary survey data

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January 17, 2013 by aggiesez

In just a few days I’ve already gathered over 100 responses to my new survey about nonstandard relationships. I designed …
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Category: Data and statistics, Input needed

Why fluid bonded sex is, um, “sticky”

Updates to tips for treating non-primary partners well

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January 15, 2013 by aggiesez

The most popular post on this blog — by far — was my crowdsourced list of tips: Non-primary partners tell …
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Category: Input needed

Survey for our book: How are your relationships off the escalator?

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January 13, 2013 by aggiesez

Love was never one-size-fits-all. Generally we don’t hear much that’s positive (or much at all) about significant intimate relationships which …
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Category: Input needed