1. The gift of owning up after a breakup (guest post)

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    December 24, 2012 by aggiesez

    I’ve been putting a fair amount work into this blog, and I’m startinig to feel like it’s really worth the …
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  2. What’s wonderful about being polyamorous, solo and single, part 2

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    December 17, 2012 by aggiesez

    This cracks me up: When I mention to someone who’s not polyamorous that I am poly, they often say something …
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  3. What’s wonderful about being solo, polyamorous, and single, part 1

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    December 17, 2012 by aggiesez

    Taking stock at the end of 2012, I’ve realized there are many things wonderful about being solo, and polyamorous, and …
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  4. What polyamory can learn from kink: Lily Lloyd speaks up

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    December 11, 2012 by aggiesez

    Ultimately the kink scene is more about forthrightness, negotiation, responsibility, and consent than it is about leather, floggers, or even …
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  5. My Polyamory Weekly interview on treating non-primary partners well

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    December 11, 2012 by aggiesez

    Just a few minutes ago, Cunning Minx, host of the excellent podcast Polyamory Weekly, posted the interview she did with …
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  6. Couple privilege: Your thoughts?

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    December 3, 2012 by aggiesez

    No matter how egalitarian you are, privilege exists. We’re all soaking in it — even in the polyamorous/open relationship community. …
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  7. Why I say “non-primary,” not “secondary”

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    November 30, 2012 by aggiesez

    I’m a writer and editor by profession, so I choose words carefully. In this blog I deliberately refer to “non-primary” …
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  8. Riding the relationship escalator (or not)

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    November 29, 2012 by aggiesez

    UPDATE FEBRUARY 2017: I’ve just published a new book based on this unexpectedly popular post. Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: …
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  9. Non-primary partners tell: How to treat us well

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    November 27, 2012 by aggiesez

    SPECIAL NOTE: This blog post touches on one of many themes I’ll be covering in my forthcoming crowdsourced book on …
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  10. Treating a non-primary partner well: 2 tips from SHG

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    November 23, 2012 by aggiesez

    Earlier this month I put out a public call for non-primary partners in polyamorous or open relationships to share their …
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